Keeping with the focus on a slower paced seduction, here are a few traits that brides are attracted to that aren't so talked about within the seduction community:
Keeping with the focus on a slower paced seduction, here are a few traits that brides are attracted to that aren't so talked about within the seduction community:
But you're a kind nice guy, right? So what are you doing wrong? I'm a nice guy and I get brides for that exact reason. Why? The difference is that your nice isn't the same as my nice. When you're nice, you do it to manipulate. "But I'm not manipulative". Are you being nice and going out of your way in hopes of a particular woman liking you? Then you're being manipulative. I tend to do things just because I'm a nice guy. I donate my time to help others; when I buy drinks or pay for something, I expect nothing in return; I lay my life on the line just to make sure my friends are safe. And I do it because it's who I am. I don't do it to impress anyone or grab the attention of any woman. Notice the difference? Brides are attracted to genuinely kind men, not men who are nice because they expect something in return. Nor are they attracted to men that are push-overs and let people take advantage of them. If you're nice because of social pressure, that isn't being nice. It's called being weak.
Remember how awhile back, I told you that brides are attracted to bad boys because they have a life story that's worth telling? It's not necessarily the stories that attract the brides. It's the fact that the guy has dealt with many high-pressure situations that will no doubt occur throughout life. Place yourself in the shoes of a woman for a bit. if you're looking for a potential husband to father your children, do you want a guy with no life experience, or do you want a guy that has "been there before". Common sense tells you who she's going to choose. She's going to choose the guy with more experience. Not only because he will be a better protector by seeing dangers from afar and knowing how to deal with them, but also because he has the life knowledge that he will pass down to his children, so that they will be better suited to deal with life.
One of the most lower-rated attractive qualities that a guy can have, is intelligence. Brides love intelligent men, they just don't want the socially unacceptable intelligent men (aka dorky nerds). How did I beat out the meat heads in winning over brides? In class, I was intelligent, something that they just couldn't compete with. I was also a little bit cooler in the way I spoke to them. It takes intelligence to know how to talk to a woman; something that many of the beefier guys tended to lack. Combine these three traits, and I can guarantee you won't be without a woman for long. They fight over men that have these highly desirable qualities.